Plucky bride reveals why she went forward with £12,000 wedding ceremony day regardless of being jilted

A jilted bride has defined why she determined to hold on together with her wedding ceremony with out her groom when he failed to show up.

Kayley Stead, 27, who lives in Portmead, Swansea, Wales, found she wasn’t going to marry her accomplice of just about 4 years Kallum Norton, 24, the morning of her do.

Regardless of the heartbreak, Kayley determined to go forward with the large day, surrounded together with her family members round her, on September 15 at Oxwich Bay Lodge in Gower, Swansea, Wales.

Kayley went forward together with her wedding ceremony entrance, meal, speeches, dances and even posed for skilled images with out her groom.  

Courageous Kayley punched off the highest tier of her wedding ceremony cake, and spent her first dance with the groomsmen, her brothers, and pop Brian, 71. She even entered the get together singing alongside to Lizzo’s ‘Good as Hell’ together with her bridal get together.

Despite her heartbreak, Kayley (pictured) decided she would enjoy her big day, after splashing out £12,000 on the celebrations

Regardless of her heartbreak, Kayley (pictured) determined she would take pleasure in her huge day, after forking out £12,000 on the celebrations

Now Kayley (pictured) says she is pleased she still had the party, so that all the money and effort put into planning the do didn't go to waste

Now Kayley (pictured) says she is happy she nonetheless had the get together, so that every one the cash and energy put into planning the do did not go to waste

Kayley was with her ex boyfriend Kallum for almost four years, with the groom-to-be proposing in August 2022

Kayley was together with her ex boyfriend Kallum for nearly 4 years, with the groom-to-be proposing in August 2022 

Now dwelling alone, together with her honeymoon cancelled, Kayley is happy she nonetheless had the get together – so cash and energy did not go to waste.

Her buddies have rallied round her, barely leaving her facet and organising a GoFundMe web page to try to recoup some prices.

Insurance coverage clerk Kayley stated: ‘I noticed the groom at round 4pm the day earlier than the marriage and I have never heard from him since.

‘We have tried to achieve out to him, however I’ve had no response from him, no motive why. I’ve had no rationalization – not that I would like one now, as a result of it is too far alongside the road.

‘It was an absolute shock, I had no indication he was going to do that however seeing my women distraught as effectively made me wish to flip the day round.

‘I did not wish to keep in mind the day as full unhappiness.   

‘The entire day, we had been saying it felt like an episode of Hollyoaks or EastEnders. It did not really feel like an actual life scenario.

‘There have been so many particular moments, like my wedding ceremony entrance, the sparkler stroll, the primary dance and punching the marriage cake – so there was nonetheless happiness within the day.

Despite being heartbroken, Kayley decided to don her wedding gown (pictured) and enjoy the day with her friends and family, looking her best

Regardless of being heartbroken, Kayley determined to don her wedding ceremony robe (pictured) and benefit from the day together with her family and friends, wanting her greatest

According to Kayley (pictured) the bridal party woke up around 6am, and started getting ready. The groom had disappeared by this point, but the bridal party hid Kayley's phone to ensure he was actually gone before breaking the news to her

In keeping with Kayley (pictured) the bridal get together awakened round 6am, and began preparing. The groom had disappeared by this level, however the bridal get together hid Kayley’s telephone to make sure he was really gone earlier than breaking the information to her

Even after discovering the groom had fled, Kayley reassured the bridal party that he would be back - and that he was likely just clearing his head before the big day

Even after discovering the groom had fled, Kayley reassured the bridal get together that he could be again – and that he was probably simply clearing his head earlier than the large day

Friends: Kayley (pictured with her bridesmaids) said 'asked the girls, his family and the groomsmen to continue getting ready, because I honestly believed he was going to be there'

Pals: Kayley (pictured together with her bridesmaids) stated ‘requested the ladies, his household and the groomsmen to proceed preparing, as a result of I actually believed he was going to be there’

The plucky singleton continued with the wedding day, and enjoyed the formalities, including the after dinner speeches (pictured)

The plucky singleton continued with the marriage day, and loved the formalities, together with the after dinner speeches (pictured)

‘I would spent all this cash, I would been wanting ahead to the meals, a dance with my dad, spending time with my household, so why not?’  

Kayley and her ex, named by The Solar as Kallum Norton, began courting in December 2018 and obtained engaged when he proposed in August 2020.

The night time earlier than the marriage, Kayley stayed in an AirBnB celebrating together with her bridesmaids whereas the groom and his groomsmen stayed in a caravan close to the venue.

Kayley stated: ‘The groom and I had already agreed to not communicate the night time earlier than the marriage anyway, so I did not know what was occurring on his finish, I did not have a clue. I used to be in full bliss – unknown bliss.’

The groomsmen contacted the bridal get together to inform them he’d left, she claims.

Kayley stated: ‘We awakened at quarter previous six when the make-up artist arrived, had breakfast collectively after which began preparing.

‘One of many groomsmen contacted my greatest good friend to say the groom was gone, and the bridal get together hid my telephone so they may determine what was one of the best ways to inform me and I would not discover out from another person.

‘They wished to verify he was undoubtedly gone earlier than panicking me.

Celebrations: while the groom may not have been at the wedding, Kayley's friends and family were, and she made the most of their company to ensure the day wasn't all about misery and heartache

Celebrations: whereas the groom could not have been on the wedding ceremony, Kayley’s family and friends had been, and he or she made essentially the most of their firm to make sure the day wasn’t all about distress and heartache

When Kayley discovered the groom really had gone, her videographer jokingly suggested that she go ahead with the wedding anyway. She said: 'I'd spent all this money, I'd been looking forward to the food, a dance with my dad, spending time with my family, so why not?'

When Kayley found the groom actually had gone, her videographer jokingly prompt that she go forward with the marriage anyway. She stated: ‘I would spent all this cash, I would been wanting ahead to the meals, a dance with my dad, spending time with my household, so why not?’

Despite not having the day go entirely to plan, Kayley made changes throughout the planned wedding to turn a devastating day into a beautiful one

Regardless of not having the day go totally to plan, Kayley made adjustments all through the deliberate wedding ceremony to show a devastating day into a phenomenal one

‘I discovered my telephone and noticed I had a missed name from his mum. I referred to as her again and he or she was crying and advised me he had gone for a drive within the early hours of the morning, and he was gone.  

‘At that time, I wasn’t nervous, I used to be nonetheless fairly hopeful, as all through our relationship, he had typically gone for a stroll or a drive to clear his head when he was nervous.

‘For a few hours, I used to be saying he was going to be there, and I used to be reassuring the ladies. I actually believed, hand on coronary heart, that he was going to be there.

‘I requested the ladies, his household and the groomsmen to proceed preparing, as a result of I actually believed he was going to be there.’ 

At round 11am, Kayley had simply sat to have her hair achieved together with her make-up all completed when she spoke to the groom’s dad on the telephone.

She claims he advised her that her accomplice wouldn’t be attending the marriage.

Kayley stated: ‘At that time, I used to be gone. I used to be sobbing.

According to the bride, although her fiance did a runner, all of the groomsmen stayed, as well as all of her friends, family and loved ones

In keeping with the bride, though her fiance did a runner, the entire groomsmen stayed, in addition to all of her buddies, household and family members

Kayley says that despite the sadness of the day, she still wanted photos 'because all of the groomsmen and bridesmaids looked absolutely incredible'

Kayley says that regardless of the unhappiness of the day, she nonetheless wished images ‘as a result of the entire groomsmen and bridesmaids seemed completely unbelievable’

‘As soon as I advised my mother and father, the hairdresser and the videographer, that is once I needed to inform myself that it wasn’t going to occur.  

‘As a joke, the videographer stated: ‘Why do not you stick with it, women? You’ve got spent all this cash, you are not getting it again, all of your visitors are there, why do not you simply go?’

‘My sister was redoing my make-up, as a result of at that time it was all simply gone, and he or she stated: ‘Why do not you do it, Kayley?’

‘That is once I was like, I’ll do it. I would spent all this cash, I would been wanting ahead to the meals, a dance with my dad, spending time with my household, so why not?’  

The 2 wedding ceremony events headed into the ceremony room collectively and advised the visitors what had occurred earlier than asking them to go out to the backyard to satisfy Kayley as an alternative.

Kayley stated: ‘I did not wish to see the ceremony room – I’ve by no means seen how that seemed.

‘When my sister and my greatest good friend had been explaining what had gone on to the visitors, everyone was crying as a result of they’d been wanting ahead to that day.  

‘I requested for 10 minutes to myself earlier than I noticed my visitors, after which moderately than strolling down the aisle, I walked not far away in my gown and had everyone simply me.

Describing the day, Kayley has said she 'wanted to make sure everyone knew that it wasn't about the sad, we were going to power through this'

Describing the day, Kayley has stated she ‘wished to verify everybody knew that it wasn’t in regards to the unhappy, we had been going to energy via this’

Among the changes Kayley made to her big day, she avoided the ceremony room, which she says she didn't want to see given the circumstances

Among the many adjustments Kayley made to her huge day, she prevented the ceremony room, which she says she did not wish to see given the circumstances 

Dance: among the traditions Kayley was looking forward to was dancing with her father, which she decided to go ahead and do despite her groom ditching the big day

Dance: among the many traditions Kayley was wanting ahead to was dancing together with her father, which she determined to go forward and do regardless of her groom ditching the large day

‘No one knew what to do, I believe they had been a bit scared to say one thing, after which everyone simply began cheering and hugging me.’

The entire groomsmen stayed, in addition to all of her buddies, household and family members.

With their help, Kayley carried on with the day she had deliberate with out her groom and made adjustments all through to show a devastating day into a phenomenal one.

As a substitute of the normal bride and groom’s entrance, Kayley was joined by the groomsmen and bridesmaids as they sang and danced alongside to Lizzo’s ‘Good as Hell’ on their approach to the highest desk.

She stated: ‘We had been simply doing issues off the cuff, actually. It was all primarily based on intuition, and we simply went with it.

‘I nonetheless wished images as a result of the entire groomsmen and bridesmaids seemed completely unbelievable, and I wished them to have their footage as they usually would.

‘The photographer additionally took a photograph of me in my gown within the backyard, after which we did household images and bridesmaid images as an alternative of the bride and groom.

‘You’ll be able to in all probability see a number of tear streaks down my face, however I really like the images.

Kayley, pictured with friends, says that there were 'so many special moments, like my wedding entrance, the sparkler walk, the first dance and punching the wedding cake' during the adapted wedding day

Kayley, pictured with buddies, says that there have been ‘so many particular moments, like my wedding ceremony entrance, the sparkler stroll, the primary dance and punching the marriage cake’ in the course of the tailored wedding ceremony day

‘I used to be by no means going to make a speech, however I wished to thank everybody for staying as a result of they did not must. It was a really awkward scenario for them to be in, however all of them stayed.

‘I wished to verify everybody knew that it wasn’t in regards to the unhappy, we had been going to energy via this.

‘Everyone saved saying sorry to me, however I wished that to cease – they hadn’t chosen that path, they’d chosen to remain, so let’s rejoice that.

The photograph sales space had initially displayed ‘Mr and Mrs’ with what would have been the couple’s married identify however was rapidly changed with an indication that learn ‘Kayley’s Shindig’.

Slightly than sharing her first dance with the groom, Kayley as an alternative danced together with her dad, brothers and the groomsmen to ‘Love You To The Moon and Again’ by Dolly Parton.

Kayley stated: ‘I would at all times dreamed of dancing with my dad at my wedding ceremony. He is 71, and I at all times had a worry that he and my mum, Dee, 63, would not be at my wedding ceremony, so I at all times wished to have my dance with him.

‘My 4 brothers and the groomsmen joined in as a result of I wished to thank them for staying. They did not run away, and I might have completely understood in the event that they did, however they stood by me the entire day.’

'There was still happiness in the day', Kayley has said of her non-wedding day, managing to find some positives among the sadness of the day

‘There was nonetheless happiness within the day’, Kayley has stated of her non-wedding day, managing to seek out some positives among the many unhappiness of the day

Since the wedding, some of Kayley's friends have set up a GoFundMe page to try and help Kayley get some money back after she spent her life savings

Because the wedding ceremony, a few of Kayley’s buddies have arrange a GoFundMe web page to try to assist Kayley get some a refund after she spent her life financial savings

As a substitute of strolling via the sparkler tunnel together with her groom, Kayley walked via alone and partied the night time away together with her visitors earlier than spending the night time within the bridal suite together with her maid of honour and one among her greatest buddies.

Kayley is now adjusting to a newly-single life with out her groom and is not occurring the honeymoon to Turkey.

She has packed up her ex’s belongings from her residence and left them with household with nonetheless no phrase or rationalization from him, she claims.

Kayley stated: ‘My greatest buddies have not left my facet since, they slept with me within the room, so I wasn’t alone, because it was a bizarre area to be in with out seeing all his stuff.

‘I do not consider in preventing hearth with hearth, I would moderately simply take care of the scenario as greatest as I can and maintain my head excessive.

‘I do not need anyone to assume I gave him a motive to depart me as a result of I had no inclination earlier than that he was going to do that.

‘I had no clue, no sign. He confirmed me no motive as to why he would depart me on that day.

‘A few days earlier than, we had been going for meals collectively, he was speaking in regards to the honeymoon, and he purchased me a guide final Christmas with 1,000,000 causes as to why he cherished me inside, all handwritten with our particular moments.

‘After I came upon he wasn’t coming to the marriage, I made a decision I did not wish to keep in mind the day as full unhappiness.

Kayley (pictured) says she had 'no clue, no signal' that she would be jilted on her wedding day

According to Kayley (pictured), the groom 'showed me no reason as to why he would leave me on that day'

Kayley (pictured) says she had ‘no clue, no sign’ that she could be jilted, saying that the groom ‘confirmed me no motive as to why he would depart me on that day’

Now Kayley's friends have set up a GoFundMe page for the bride, saying they 'want to help build a fresh start for her where she never has to suffer financially from the aftermath of this ordeal'

Now Kayley’s buddies have arrange a GoFundMe web page for the bride, saying they ‘wish to assist construct a recent begin for her the place she by no means has to endure financially from the aftermath of this ordeal’

According to a friend, Kayley has a 'heart of gold and would do anything for anyone' - and she did not deserve to be left on the morning of her wedding day with no explanation and zero contact from the groom

In keeping with a good friend, Kayley has a ‘coronary heart of gold and would do something for anybody’ – and he or she didn’t need to be left on the morning of her wedding ceremony day with no rationalization and nil contact from the groom

‘There have been so many particular moments, like my wedding ceremony entrance, the sparkler stroll, the primary dance and punching the marriage cake. There was nonetheless happiness within the day.’

Because the wedding ceremony, Kayley’s buddies have arrange a GoFundMe web page to try to assist Kayley get some a refund after she spent her life financial savings on the day.

Kayley’s greatest good friend and maid of honour, Jordie Cullen, 27, who arrange the GoFundMe web page, stated: ‘Kayley has a coronary heart of gold and would do something for anybody.

‘She didn’t need to be left on the morning of her wedding ceremony day with no rationalization and nil contact from the groom. We now ask you assist us decide our woman up, mud herself off and transfer on.

‘As her greatest family and friends, we wish to assist construct a recent begin for her the place she by no means has to endure financially from the aftermath of this ordeal.’

The groom has refused to remark.

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