“No Pigeons” is the title of the spinoff (and subpar) observe by Sporty Thievz launched in 1999 as a response to TLC’s “No Scrubs.” It’s additionally Unbothered tradition critic and Unbothered Go Off, Sis podcast co-host Ineye Komonibo’s official requirement when on the lookout for a metropolis to reside in. Completely no pigeons. Her “pigeon phobia” is a part of why she’s performed with New York Metropolis. “I’m drained. It’s making me stressed and I really feel like my nervous system is shot… There’s a tradition of hustling and grinding that’s ingrained into [New York’s] DNA that doesn’t essentially permit for a sure high quality of life that I’m on the lookout for,” Komonibo, who lives in Brooklyn, shared on the most recent episode of Go Off, Sis. “I’ve had sufficient. I received’t be renewing my lease subsequent yr. I’m outta right here.”
Komonibo’s determination to go away town she’s referred to as house for a better, extra carefree life someplace else is one many individuals — particularly Black of us — have been making recently. Because the pandemic hit, persons are reassessing their dwelling conditions and selecting to pack up and go. Whether or not it’s for a brief getaway or a life-changing transfer, Black persons are out right here touring in 2022. On this episode, the hosts of Go Off, Sis dig deep into what goes into the choice to go away a metropolis, the duties that include touring overseas, and why so many Black girls are leaving America.
“As soon as I’m financially 110% [and] steady or the place I wanna be, I’m fully out of America,” mentioned Affiliate Social Strategist Maiya Carmichael. “Bye-bye, arrivederci, see you by no means once more. Mama sends you a postcard. [laughs] ‘Trigger I don’t know if this nation is all the best way for me, so I gotta discover the world.”
Becoming a member of the hosts for this episode is somebody who is aware of a factor or two about exploring the world: journey influencer and entrepreneur Chidi Ashley. She is the founder and CEO of Luxe Tribes, a journey service and group, which offers genuine stress-free bucket checklist experiences to vacationers. Ashley can also be the CEO of Readyhubb, a software program options firm and market design for impartial magnificence professionals to market their providers and handle their appointments. She has lived everywhere in the world — The U.S., Nigeria, South Africa, England, Thailand, Bali, Peru, Canada — and now she has settled in Dubai. With all of her expertise touring the world, we needed to ask Ashley what it’s like navigating all these totally different cultures as a Black girl.
“I believe you’ll come to search out out that no matter whether or not you’re African, Black American — no matter Black you might be — individuals simply see you as Black. And so, individuals will naturally have stereotypes or expectations,” Ashley mentioned. “I’ve type of simply operated within the sense of I’m simply going to concentrate on me. And if I’m in Dubai, if I’m in Bali, I’m going to hold myself with a confidence that I don’t care in the event that they’re staring, I don’t care in the event that they’re wanting, I’m right here to have a superb time. I’m right here to get what I would like from this house whereas additionally being respectful in that house.” Ashley talked extra about respecting locals whereas touring and easy methods to set your self up for achievement in the event you select to journey or transfer overseas.
To listen to extra about Chidi Ashley’s many companies (sure, she’s booked and busy) and easy methods to journey ethically (if that’s even potential), take heed to the total episode beneath.
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